M & I Bank Building 800 W. 47th St. Suite 630 Kansas City, Missouri  64112

Telephone: Office (816) 931-9912 Fax: (816) 561-5352

Pamela L. Fike offers a confidential atmosphere of respect and compassion where you can express your concerns and feelings through supportive listening and expert guidance.  Ms. Fike works with you to strengthen your self-awareness and personal empowerment helping to improve your tools to make conscious, positive changes which can improve your life experiences.

Ms. Fike received her Master of Arts Degree in Counseling and Guidance from the University of Missouri/Kansas City.  She is seen as an expert in the field of acute and chronic traumatic stress.  She has provided local and international educational training for professionals and students on effective therapeutic treatment and recovery processes for the University of Missouri, the Federal Bureau of Investigation, the United States Attorney's Office, Partners of the Americas and local organizations.  Ms. Fike also contracts with national banks and retail companies to provide post-traumatic stress reduction debriefings for employees who have been victims of crime and traumatic events on the job.

Ms. Fike has over 12 years experience in private practice and continues to actively help ensure quality, effective and ethical practices of licensed professional counselors, as well as the promotion of client rights.

 

Ms. Fike is a member of the International Critical Incident Stress Foundation, the American Counselor's Association, the American Psychological Association, the American Mental Health Counselors Association, the Partners of the Americas, Missouri Coalition Against Domestic Violence, and VictimNet.

 

Why Seek Counseling?

People seek emotional support for many different reasons.  Sometimes we need help in dealing with a loved one or friend, health issues, job changes or challenges in relationships. Often we may want support with recovery from a major life event or an accumulation of multiple life changes or stressors. Sometimes we may want support with exploring our own personal growth to move from an emotional place we feel stuck or just to enhance the life we are living.

 

Although the issues are different for each person, there is a common need to learn more about ourselves through personal insight and emotional support.  You may have thought about talking to family or friends.   That can be a good place to start, although many times you can benefit from talking to a professional. A professional will introduce you to new tools and help to support and expedite your process towards living the way you want.

 

What are the Benefits of Counseling?

Research shows that counseling is effective.  Participating in therapy with a skilled professional who is removed from the situation and can offer supportive listening in a safe, non-judgmental environment can promote personal growth and conscious change.

 

Seeking help when you are experiencing distress can prevent symptoms and problems from worsening.  You may benefit from counseling if you are having feelings of low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, stress, or problems with eating or sleeping.

 

Benefits of Counseling Include:

1. Improving Self-Esteem, Personal Awareness and Empowerment
2. Healing from Trauma and Violation
3. Reducing Risk of Physical Illness
4. Coping with Life Changes and Loss
5. Developing Effective Communication Skills
6. Overcoming Sexual Difficulties
7. Relieving Stress, Anxiety and Depression
8. Creating Balance between Work, Home and Self
9. Achieving Helath Relationships
10. Rediscovering Your Passions and Interests
11. Gaining Trust in Your Decisions
12. Feeling More In Control of "Living"
13. Gaining Personal Growth and Fulfillment

Ultimately, the process can lead to an overall achievement of personal empowerment that will help you work through life changes, now and in the future.

How Do I Choose a Counselor?

Choosing a professional counselor that is a good match for you is critical to the effectiveness of your therapy.  Here are some tips:

1. Asking for referrals from a trusted medical professional, friend or relative can help expedite your search. Choosing from among several counselors may help you find one who fits with you.
2. Select a licensed and experienced professional.
3. Ask about their particular style of counseling and their experience with your concern.
4. Check for a convenient office location, hours and manageable fees.
5. Make an appointment. Usually wihtin the first few sessions, if not sooner, you will know if you are comfortable with this counselor.
6. If you do not feel comfortable with your choice, you can ask your counselor for a referral.

Pamela L. Fike, M.A., L.P.C., N.C.C.
816-931-9912
800 W. 47th St. Suite 630
Kansas City, MO 64112

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